February 16, 2016

Would be nice to have someone to spend sometime with

I have had three successful careers, building up businesses & brought up a family so now it’s time for me to enjoy myself! I love good restaurants, all types of the arts, travel and being active so if you’ are looking for someone ready to make the most of every day get in touch

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January 11, 2016

Love Coach – Adriane Hartigan-von Strauch speaks exclusively to Divorced and Dating Club

Sometimes in a relationship, you know that something just isn’t right. Often times, you might be a relationship and get exactly the same frustrations that you had in a previous relationship.

If you’ve ever experienced this, then you need to listen to The Love Coach. Adriana Hartigan-von Strauch is a Love- and Intimacy Awakening Coach based in Auckland, New Zealand.

Born out of her spiritual upbringing, and full of her own rich life experiences, she has developed and trained to become one of New Zealand and the worlds leading dating and relationship coaches.

We were fortunate to get time today in Adrianas diary to get her thoughts on dating and getting the relationships that you want and deserve.

Listen to the audio right here:


If you want to learn more about Adriana, you can go to: http://www.lovecoach.co.nz/


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November 27, 2015

Claire, 34, gym cooking

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August 18, 2015

Divorced and Dating Club Launches

Welcome to the Divorced and Dating Club

We are delighted to announce the launch of the Divorced and Dating Club. If you are looking to find someone new for friendship and romance after a divorce, then you are in the right place.

Do you just wish you could find like minded people who understand your feelings. Maybe you have children and want to meet someone who has children too, maybe you just want to connect with some new people. Whatever your circumstances, The Divorced and Dating Club was designed with you in mind. We’d encourage you to have a look around, to join free and to dip your toe in the water by meeting some of our other members just like you at the Divorced and Dating Club.

We have partnered with the UK’s leading dating provider to give you the highest quality members to meet, the best online service and the best customer support. To give you trust and confidence in us as a provider, we are happy to share the latest service updates and experiences on a regular basis:

Customer Satisfaction Rate – 98.8%

Customer Feedback

Here are 2 quotes for you to look at that your Customer Support Team have received this week:-

We received a message from Jon Paul: “To be honest, for a paid site, I think that you are one of the best. I would recommend it to anyone, so thank you”.

We have another message to share from Debbie,

Debbie: “I would just like to say a BIG thank you to you guys and girls. Due to problems with my ex, I found it hard getting back on the dating scene, thanks to this site, it’s been easy and doesn’t feel uncomfortable, I chatted with some brill people on here and have made some great friends. Once again, thank you xx”

We here at The Divorced and Dating club will keep you updated on latest developments, our findings and experiences.

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March 2, 2015

Divorce and Dating Club – Meeting Someone After Dating Online

Online dating gives you the chance to widen your search for a potential long-term partner. A relationship is not to stay online if you really want it to be successful. Sooner or later, you need to decide to finally meet each other. This is an important step in knowing if the other person is really honest regarding their feelings towards you. There will be no hiding age and physical appearance. If you think it is time to meet offline look at the following guidelines:

Choose a public place. It is important to meet the person in a public place. This is to ensure that you are kept safe within the crowd. Make sure that the place is convenient and appropriate for meetings of this kind. You can choose a coffee shop or a restaurant. You should meet the person during the daytime. Avoid meeting strangers later into the evening to avoid any difficult situations. It is best to schedule it around lunch time or coffee breaks in the afternoon. You can choose to eat in a restaurant but to be more casual, you can choose to meet in a coffee shop. Being in a more relaxed place will lend itself to an easier meeting.

Dress properly. Choose what to wear that is appropriate to the place where you are going to meet each other. You also want to present the right first impression to your date. It is safe to dress casual clothes but avoid wearing t-shirts and jeans – these are less appropriate for dating seniors.

Keep your conversation warm and light. Keeping a conversation smooth and light-hearted will avoid awkward moments. You can always talk about the things that you both enjoy. Be open to share more about you. You need to show your date that you are interested in them by asking appropriate questions. You also need to be careful in selecting topics to talk about. This is to ensure that you are both at ease in voicing your opinions. Always maintain a positive and warm atmosphere.

Keep it short. Meeting a person for the first time after dating online should be kept short. Spending time together for an hour or two is enough. Try to avoid getting carried away with your feelings too soon. If you stay too long you might end up saying too much so keep the interest going and save more information for your next meeting. This way you can both be eager to meet each other again.

After the first date: If you found out that the person is not the right one for you, you can tell them politely. You can terminate your connection online after that. If you are the one who is rejected, do not take it personally and move on. You can still find someone who is more compatible.

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February 11, 2015

Baloo, 37, fun, caring and a bit cheeky

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February 7, 2015

Divorce and Dating Club – Online Dating Guidelines

You may feel lost when you just start to date online. You may not know how to start and you may doubt if online dating is really for you. However, online dating has become very popular with more and more people looking to find a match online. There are also a lot of online dating sites that have developed particular services to single people. There are numerous online dating sites that are exclusive for senior singles. More seniors are using these sites and here are some of the guidelines to get you started.

You need to learn how to select the best online dating site to meet your needs. Make sure the site has a system to protect your privacy. You will still need to be cautious in dealing with people online, don’t trust or believe people easily. You should remain anonymous to every person you talk to online as much as possible. This is how you guard your safety outside the internet. You should never give out your phone number or email address right away. It is better to use a screen name rather than using your real name when chatting through instant messaging services. Set up a separate email address to be used for online dating purposes.

Be careful regarding conversation topics. Avoid talking about money and stick with casual topics first. Do not tell the other person where you work or anything about your personal life at first. Do not get too excited with dating online as this will make you more prone to become a victim of false love. Make sure the person has the same intentions as you before going further into the relationship. Avoid being carried away by sweet messages. This is a way for some people to trick you into giving your private information. Most of the time, a person who seems too good to be true is hiding something from you. It is good to create a bond with people online but like the traditional way of dating, it is better to meet the person before sharing more about yourself. You need to meet them several times before making the relationship more serious.

Online dating should be taken step by step. You need to take your time before making any decisions. This is to keep you safe and to increase your chance in finding your best potential match online.

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January 7, 2015

Divorce and Dating Club – Senior First Dates

Our first dates are memorable for many of us. For some, first dates are extremely awkward and weird while others enjoyed it. A first date can be one of the most memorable things a person can have. However, when it comes to having first dates during your senior years, everything might be different. Dating again when you’re older can still trigger fear and anxiety. This is true especially if you have been alone for many years and so dating again may feel extremely odd.

You may look at yourself in the mirror and lose all your confidence just before meeting your date for the first time. There is no reason to fear your first date. As long as you manage to gather your self-confidence again, you can always get through it with ease.

On a first date do not worry about an awkward silence. This can ruin everything if you do not know how to handle this kind of situation. What can you do to avoid awkward moments during your first date? How can you make your first date a success, just like what you did when you were younger? The best thing to do is to be open to a good conversation. You need to be eager in asking questions and giving your honest opinions to every topic. This will avoid making awkward silences and will allow the smooth flow of conversation. In addition, you should let your interests and curiosity of the other person keep your conversation going. If you are really attracted to the other person, you should use your first date as a chance to get to know more about them and to flirt effectively. Keep in mind that the other person may also feel just as anxious as you are. You can help each other by initiating a good conversation. Learn how to ask proper questions and be confident about talking about different subjects. Stick to the things that you are both interested in.

The dating scene today is different to when you were younger. Learning how to flirt effectively can also help you become successful in dating. Most importantly, you need to stop worrying and enjoy your moment together.

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December 6, 2014

Divorce and Dating Club – How To Reject Someone Online Properly

Dating online gives you a great opportunity to meet and interact with many people compared to traditional dating. However, it may require a different approach to resolve certain issues under certain circumstances. You need to know how to reject someone online appropriately. Remember that having good manners and being polite are important qualities online.

Be firm. You need to deliver the proper message to the other person. You need to be honest and clear when rejecting someone online. You need to do this so that the person can easily tell that you are serious just by reading your message. If you sound unsure this leaves it open to further contact. You need to send an email and tell the person straight that you are not interested. Be firm but don’t be impolite.

Be polite. Everyone, including the online community, appreciates someone who has good manners and who is polite. Talking with people through emails and instant messaging services is not an excuse to be rude. You still have to consider the feelings of others even when you do not know each other in person. You can be honest and be gracious with your words at the same time. If you are not interested in taking the relationship further, you should make the person feel that you have enjoyed their company. You need to state that you need to move on and continue your search for a better match.

Taking time to send a proper email. You can tell the person through a phone call if you have already exchanged phone numbers. If not, you should do it by sending an email. In fact, it is better not to reject or break up with someone you met online in person. It is always harder to deliver the news face to face and will only give yourself reasons not to even though it is the right thing to do.

Be calm. Telling someone who is persistent to leave you alone without being angry or irritable can be a hard thing to do. However, you need to avoid these negative emotions. You need to try to stay calm but firm. However, if someone is harassing you, you should just block or report them. Blocking and terminating someone from your list should be done right and only when extremely necessary.

Being in a situation where you need to say ‘no’ to someone can happen to anybody, including you. You need to learn how to deal with it properly to avoid getting into a more complicated situation.

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November 17, 2014

Kathy, 60, looking for a nice man to holiday with

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